|St. Francis de Sales (photo credit: Wikimedia Commons).|
CSBN has been running a series on spiritual idiolects, a phrase I coined to mean the unique way each person relates to God. I hope that you will find "kindred spirits" in these posts, and be drawn to follow bloggers who have a similar spirituality to yours--or those whose are surprisingly different.
My spiritual idiolect is practical mysticism. I've always hated the saying, "He's so heavenly minded that he's no earthly good." The truly heavenly minded do the most earthly good. Think of St. Therese, who even wanted to do earthly good while in Heaven. She reached the heights of the prayer life, and actively loved her neighbors. That's what I aspire to. I want to be a contemplative wife and mother. I want to love God and my neighbor.
I loved St. Therese from the first time I read about her as a child. Her personality appealed to the romantic idealist in me.
Later, my older sister urged me to read Introduction to the Devout Life by St. Francis de Sales. Now, there's a great book! St. Francis taught lay people how they could be saints, giving them tips on every area of life. How do you know when temptation becomes sin? How can you practice Christian meditation? How can a lay person live in the world and be properly detached from it? St. Francis answers all these questions. I need concrete direction. That's why I love St. Francis.
The next saintly influence on my spiritual idiolect came from Teresa of Avila. Although I didn't really understand The Interior Castle the first time I read it, it drew me to a life of prayer. Eventually, I joined the Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites. They explained St. Teresa's teaching to me. They also introduced me to St. John of the Cross.
Today I am no longer OCDS, but I am thoroughly Carmelite in my spirituality. St. John in particular taught that mysticism is not a matter of visions, locutions, and altered states. Rather, it is a matter of a deep communion with God in prayer. Aspiring to be mystics as the world sees mysticism can be dangerous. Aspiring to grow in prayer is the call of every Christian.
Now I try to give practical spiritual help to others through my blog and ebooks. (I'm working on a full-length one right now to add to my short ebook published in June.) I like to teach people, including children, about the differences between true and false mysticism, Christian and eastern meditation, and Christian and pagan asceticism and detachment. I am striving to be holy in the little things of every day life. I am working to be heavenly minded and earthly good.
Connie Rossini is the administrator of Catholic Spirituality Blogs Network. Her personal blog is Contemplative Homeschool.
Connie, it's so interesting how St. John of the Cross teaches that the safest way to God is through the "darkness" of faith, and how he constantly cautions against seeking supernatural experiences..even though God graced him with many himself. I fell in love with his teaching on faith in the Ascent of Mt Carmel. Therese is such a perfect example..as you mentioned. Except for a couple of rare instances, her life was quite "normal." May God bless you in your practical mysticism. Seems you are in good company..with the great Saints you mentioned.ReplyDelete
Thanks for commenting, Patricia, and for the blessing. Yes, people who thought they knew Therese well had no idea about her deep spirituality until after her death. That should give us pause (me included) when we're tempted to judge others. Even her sisters didn't realize she was a saint until nearly the end of her life. I need to reread John of the Cross. I have never quite embraced his writings at the same level I have Therese and Teresa's. Peace.Delete
this excercise really does help the community to understand each other's basic spiritual paradigmDelete
Yeah, I think it's fun, as well as enlightening. But I'm biased, since it was my idea :).Delete
I love St Therese. She was my "first" saint after I converted. I talk to her often. She continues to be a strong influence in my spiritual life.ReplyDelete
I have come back to St. Therese since blogging. For the past several years, I've really looked to Teresa of Avila more. Now I'm reading Therese again and all I can say is "Wow!"Delete