by Connie Rossini
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| The Prayer by William-Adolphe Bouguereau (Photo courtesy of Wikimedia Commons). |
A few years ago at Mass in another diocese, the priest began a homily
on the importance of daily prayer. I was elated. We hear this far too
seldom from the pulpit. My elation soon turned to disappointment,
however. He talked about being aware of the world around you, and your
own thoughts and feelings. Shockingly, he didn’t mention God at all! I
realized the priest (apparently without knowing it) was not really
advocating prayer, but a Buddhist-inspired form of meditation.
Both Christians and Buddhists use the term “meditation,” so it’s no
wonder sincere people confuse the practices of the separate religions.
But they are quite different.
Christian meditation centers on Christ
In
Crossing the Threshold of Hope, Pope John Paul II noted
that Buddhists seek to free themselves from the world, while Christians
seek freedom from sin, through God’s grace, in order to be united with
Him. Eastern meditation might relieve stress, but it cannot save souls.
Doctor of Prayer St. Teresa of Avila gives us further insight, when she writes in the 1st chapter of
Interior Castle :
“If a person neither considers to Whom he is addressing himself, what
he asks, nor what he is who ventures to speak to God, although his lips
may utter many words, I do not call it prayer.”
In other words, true
prayer recognizes how small and sinful we are and how great God is, and
addresses itself towards Him. Eastern forms of meditation are not
addressed to anyone. The question of God’s existence and character
doesn’t come into play.
Prayer’s purpose is union with God

Christian prayer is communication with God. The conversation we have
in prayer goes both ways. In fact, God’s action during prayer is more
important than our words, thoughts, or feelings. Prayer is a search for
God, who promises, “You will seek me and find me; when you seek me with
all your heart, I will be found by you” (Jeremiah 29:13-14). As the
Song of Songs envisions it, prayer is the Beloved seeking the One who
loves her. This seeking (and finding!) is the purpose of our lives. You
and I were made for intimate union with God. God is love, and He invites
us to share in the very love that unites the Holy Trinity. The means to
this union is prayer.
Union with God unfolds in stages. When we first start praying, we
have to work hard to focus on God, to meditate on (that is, ponder) His
goodness, and to worship Him. Faithfulness to prayer and to God’s will
opens the door to the gift of contemplation, when God secretly
transforms us and draws us closer to Himself. The early stages of prayer
are concerned with seeking, the later stages with finding.
Non-Christian meditation aims too low. It cannot fulfill our longing
for eternal love. Do not be afraid to lift your sights higher. Do not be
afraid to seek the face of God in prayer!
Share with us: How have you or others around you
misunderstood the purpose of Christian prayer? What insights from your
own growth in prayer can you share?
This was originally posted at Contemplative Homeschool.